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When Hearts Are Free From The Fear Of God

One of our first cousins, who lived in a well-educated and expensive and expensive area of ​​the city, was forcibly married to one of his nephews by his father and uncle. The boy had a physical defect but his financial situation was not good. He was a modest shopkeeper and his house was in a narrow, dark street of a nearby slum. There was no match in any way, but by calling him a boy of the house, his own daughter was thrown into the furnace of experience. 

In such a unique relationship, the boy is grateful to his in-laws for considering me worthy of it. Despite my helplessness, he handed over a piece of his liver to me and somewhere he becomes a victim of senseless inferiority. And this boy, instead of being kind to his uncles, also felt inferior and began to abuse and mentally abuse his wife. And then his mother and sisters did not spare any effort to make him worse and disgusted with his wife, even to the point of beating up the girl. While a son had been born in the same situation, the situation did not improve. 

A case of khula was filed in the court by the girl. And the judge in the courtroom said these historic words. Son! Nowadays, no one asks virgins, they are getting old waiting for relationships at home. So where would you go with a child and what would you do? The girl also made history by saying that Judge! If you forcibly sent me with this person, I would commit suicide. I had heard that the judge was shocked to hear this. Then every attempt at reconciliation failed. The boy was willing to forgive but the girl expressed her determination to prefer death to reconciliation. 

After Khair Khala, the girl got into a relationship with a well-educated, single-minded boy from a very prosperous family, and for this reason, they got married and had children. And that ex-husband is still embarrassed by his shoes. The mischievous sisters who ruined his house are intoxicated in their own world and don't even face their brother. In the same way, another of our relatives got married to a well-educated girl from a very good family, the only eye-catcher in his family. And seeing them both laughing, the jealous mothers and sisters forbade them to live with their conspiracies and evil deeds until they got divorced. 

This girl also got married in another place within a year. And even after six years, he is still roaming around. No one is ready to put grass on him. Now tell me, I don't know how Abu got married to a very handsome and high-ranking cousin. Instead of thanking God for giving more than his time, he also made his wife's life miserable with his ignorance and psychology and eventually made her move with her four children. When we heard this, we were shocked and the helpless heart said, O Allah! What a shameless family. There are two more couples, all four of whom are our first cousins ​​and have been living in isolation from each other for many years due to domestic disputes and differences. 

The girls are being raised by their brothers, including children, and the boys' earnings are being eaten by their married sisters instead of reconciliation. Why would she want her brother's house to be settled and her anchorage to be closed? There are no signs of improvement in the distance. And neither side is willing to take the initiative in cursing a so-called bond. If men, despite being educated and earning money, walk on their intellect and become puppets in the hands of their mothers and sisters and dance to their tunes, their houses will not be inhabited. This is how his wives enjoy widowhood in his life and the children of orphans. 

There is much more to be said, but we have countless examples of others besides ours, but that is enough for now. There is a message for our readers in this article if they understand. One is that establishing a relationship and always marrying one's peers can lead to many class problems. The second is that parents should never marry relatives or siblings who have had disagreements with them in the past. And if your wife is a well-rounded good woman but your mother is not satisfied with her performance, then always try your best to manage the affairs and improve the environment, but keep your married sisters at home. 

Never allow yourself to interfere in matters and rule over your wife. Your spouse is not their subject. Respect and protect him. If you can afford it and your pocket allows, arrange a separate residence. Don't make the wife and children the fuel of the joint hell in the cycle of cooking your paradise. 

It is a horrible situation that even those who work hard in a foreign country to support their entire family cannot allow their wives and children to live their lives. They only know how to make sacrifices, not balance relationships and responsibilities. Just know that where there is no fear of God, there is no justice.