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           Not Every Woman Forgives

We are aware of many cases between relatives and friends that divorce took place twenty-five years after the marriage. One of our closest acquaintances divorced after 40 years of marriage. They had eight children, all of whom were married and had children. Among the distant relatives, the seventy-five-year-old couple had been living separately from their sons for the last twenty-five years. The woman was not tolerant of seeing the form of her husband, even if there was no divorce. The separation was practically over. 

A well-known political figure divorced after 45 years of marriage, while the couple were each other's first cousins ​​and their children had become grandparents. The daughter of one of our own relatives divorced her husband after 25 years of marriage. Six children and all of them young, pro-mother, anti-father and agree to the divorce. And just last year, in Dallas, two of our acquaintances got divorced after twenty years of marriage, and here, too, young children. It is common to see that in the early years of marriage, when the spouses are young, the woman does not want a divorce in spite of a million disagreements and disagreements, and the house is inhabited by her sacrifices and compromises. Humiliation only falls on the part of the woman. 

She is found guilty and to avoid this stain, a woman often erases her identity. But what is the reason that in the latter part of the age, when the paths of lifelong companions begin to diverge, this decision is mostly made by the woman in most of the cases that come to our notice. Every attempt to convince her fails. She is no longer willing to live with a man when she refuses to divorce him. But the woman does not believe she breaks the relationship and leaves it. It is understandable when the differences between the parties in their overall life have come to the fore, but in general, if their relationship has been pleasant, most of the life has been spent with understanding, then suddenly a long friendship. 

Why become a victim of chronic separation? Because what happens is that even between seemingly very satisfied couples there is a hidden master-slave relationship. The man breaks the woman in various ways in the name of his superiority. He injures his self-esteem and his will and choice. He imposes on her his weaknesses and compulsions as his shield. Despite seeing the abuses that happen to her with his own eyes, instead of remedying them, he puts her under his pressure and bends her even further. He forces her to bow down in places and threatens her with divorce in response to her every protest. 

In fact, some men have to cover themselves with a blanket and push their wives back and forth by threatening them with divorce. So as long as the woman is young and the children are small, she endures all the mistreatment of the man inside the house for the sake of their safety and the honor of her own parents. It keeps shattering inside and falls off with its own eyes. Then when the children become young and after standing on their own feet, they also go to their own homes, then the woman also finds herself returning to the ground under her feet. Now is the time to avenge the abuses and humiliations she has endured all her life. He arrives and the man is like a losing gambler. It is not uncommon for a man to become weak in old age after a lifetime of pharaohism. 

Many have now abandoned him. He is now beginning to feel very lonely. He has also realized his excesses and injustices. So now he puts all his pride and arrogance above all and bows down without hesitation to the woman who has bowed down to him all his life and the woman forgets everything in an instant and forgives him. But circumstances and observations have shown that not every woman is so stupid or high-spirited, her heart is not big enough to let go of the opportunity even though she is able to take revenge, she takes revenge in the evening of life. I . Men should also take care not to humiliate and helpless a woman intoxicated with her youth and strength so much that in old age she forgets many of your kind loves and favors and only remembers the humiliation that you gave her. Given in the time of his authority. 

Don't make her life a prison. Stop considering Mankoha as open. Before you consider your wife as your property or the shoe of your foot, know that the same shoe can fall on your own head in old age. Remember, not every woman forgives