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MOM!
The youngest of five children, I was. We are twelve years apart in age, my older brother and I. I got a lot of hugs because I was the youngest in the family. Father and mother frequently slept in the same bed. My mother was unyielding and strict. She once hit me with a pipe. But she was also a really loving mother. She used to take care of everything. She used to worry about the kids. The school van broke down one day while I was running late. The concept of a mobile phone didn't exist. I would call the van driver and ask him some questions. When the van found him, my mother was in tears.
When the daughter didn't come home, Rukhsana, the girl's equal aunt, was consoling her. As soon as he saw me, I fell in love with him. Two years after my father's death in 1985, we moved to Karachi from Islamabad. Both sisters were married. Because the other brother had moved away, the second brother was living practically outside of town due to his employment. Only my mother and I lived with my grandma throughout the last few years of her life. About this time, I started college and graduated. My oldest brother was now employed in Karachi. He wed the spouse he had picked out for them. We were now living there as a family of four. In comparison to my sister-in-law, my mother did poorly.
Despite the sister-in-ongoing law's depression due to her husband's constant happiness, life went on. I got married two years later. When her brother-in-law abruptly passed away from sudden cardiac arrest, Amy, who was older than her brother and had a bone condition, was still alive. The couple had been married for 19 years. The family system was then completely upended, not only the kids. They were all still fairly young. Only the mother, brother, and child are still present. It is clear how long one can stay after leaving home, but we three sisters got married and travelled as far as we could.
Over the course of the days, the mother grew weaker. The mother's anguish, the mother's children's suffering, and the grief of the household structure failing on them all tore them apart from the inside out. But everyone was most broken by loneliness. When we left, the house would be fully stocked with food. Auntie used to cook. Amy's senior age and orthoritis had forced her into a wheelchair. She was unable to do anything on her own, not even use the restroom. All of her errands were taken care of by our full-time aunt. however, while she was gone. If it were gone, it would be difficult for any of us to go and stay, or my mother would have to remain at a daughter's place until the aunt came back. Similarly,
My aunt was on leave for ten days. My mother was forced to spend a few days with her ailing and elderly rural elder sister Baji. I was unable to take my aunt with me everywhere she went, so I always had to leave her with my mother or bring her over. My aunt still did not appear this time after ten days. I remained with my mother when she got there. Mom's health was excellent. The only problem was that my two children slept on the sofa in the drawing room for my grandmother while she was living with me and my mother. In this case, everyone would be on my side. But my aunt did anything after more than ten days had passed.
Given how uncomfortable the sofa was, it pained to sleep there. Because of how I was feeling, I cried and begged to Allah That Day for my mother to stay with me and someone else. Don't let them get in your way. It was a time of accepting the idea that a building similar to mine would shortly be sold. At Allah's command, we gained possession of that residence quickly. The fact that it shared a wall with my children's room, however, suggests that Allah heard my prayers and took the room out of my house. Along with my brothers and children, my mother had relocated. Everyone was as cool-headed as I was. I was keeping an eye on my mum and the home.
My mother overcome her loneliness and prospered in our family. She may have come here to leave her children with me, though, given that she will pass away exactly two months after arriving. He has stopped asking Allah for a room.


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